20 Bible Verses About Relationships

20 Bible Verses About Relationships

Relationships are the connections we create with others. They can be family, friends, colleagues, and romantic partners. In the Bible, many relationships have shaped the stories we know today. Relationships are important for everyone. They provide love, support, companionship, and a sense of belonging. However, there is a great difference between toxic and healthy relationships based on the benefits.

Healthy relationships have good communication, mutual respect as well as trust. Each person in the relationship benefits which leads to growth. Toxic relationships lead to mutual or one-sided stress, anxiety, depression, and sometimes isolation from everyone else.

Relationships in the Bible are based on love. The Bible teaches us that we should love one another. Whether it is your friend, family, or partner, love should be the base of the relationship. Through the Bible, I have learned more about how to create healthy relationships and maintain them through kindness, love, and care.

1. Genesis 2:24

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The verse says, “That is why a man leaves his father and mother and is united to his wife, and they become one flesh.” It is about a man leaving his father and mother to become a family with his wife. This verse goes on to say that a husband and wife become “one flesh” The verse speaks of the unity and partnership that comes with marriage. Through this verse, we are shown that marriage requires commitment and a strong bond.

2. Proverbs 3:3

It says, “Let Love and faithfulness never leave you; bind them around your neck, write them on the tablet of your heart.” It should be noted that love and faithfulness are presented as the cornerstone of strong relationships. When it comes to romantic relationships, love, and loyalty are crucial for fostering strong romantic bonds. Friendships also thrive on genuine affection, trustworthy support, and a willingness to be there for one another through thick and thin.

3. Proverbs 3:5-6

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The passage states, “Trust in the Lord with all your heart and lean not on your understanding; in all your ways submit to him, and he will make your paths straight.” Through these verses, we are shown the emphasis on trusting in God. By trusting and submitting to God, we can overcome communication barriers, and build stronger bonds with loved ones. Seeking God’s wisdom and submitting to his will can bring peace to your relationships. However, the interpretation of the verses can vary depending on individual beliefs and religious perspectives.

4. Proverbs 12:22

The verse says, “Lying lips are an abomination to the Lord, but those who act faithfully are his delight.” The word “lying lips” refers to dishonesty, deception, and falsehood in communication. This shows how lying can destroy relationships. When a person is open and honest, there is trust and understanding. However, small white lies can chip away at this foundation and erode trust. Being genuine allows for true connection and intimacy. 

5. Proverbs 18:24

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The verse states, “A man of many companions may come to ruin, but there is a friend who sticks closer than a brother.” At face value, the verse is talking about investing time in cultivating close trustworthy friendships and enriching your life. However, when you look closer, the verse is sharing insight into the importance of keeping your circle and relationships small. Choosing a partner who shares your values and supports you is better than being with several companions who don’t want to cultivate an important relationship with you. This verse is a reminder of the popular phrase “quality over quantity”

6. Ecclesiastes 4:9-10

The passage reads, “Two are better than one because they have a good reward for their toil. For if they fall, one will lift his fellow. But woe to him who is alone when he falls and has no one to help him up.” The first part emphasizes the benefits of companionship. It shows that when we work with other people, we can achieve more than if we were alone. The second part highlights the importance of mutual support in times of hardship. When someone stumbles, having a friend or partner can help can make a world of difference.

It should be noted that strong partnerships thrive on collaboration, unwavering support, and shared goals. Friendships can also provide a valuable safety net and emotional support system. Professional relationships can lead to collaboration, teamwork, and mutual support.

7. Ecclesiastes 7:9

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The verse says, “Do not be quick to be provoked in your spirit, for anger resides in the lap of fools.” This is a valuable insight that is applicable when it comes to interpersonal interactions. In relationships, disagreements are inevitable which is why we are called to avoid being quick to anger. The verse also associates anger with foolishness. Uncontrolled anger can cloud judgment. The true test of a relationship lies in how partners navigate challenges and resolve conflicts.

8. Mark 12:30-31

The passage reads, “‘Thou shalt love the Lord thy God with all thy heart, and with all thy soul, and with all thy mind, and with all thy strength.’ This is the first commandment. And the second is like, unto, it ‘Thou shalt love thy neighbor as thyself.’ There is none other commandment greater than these.” Both of the verses emphasize love as the core principle. Loving God with all your being sets the foundation for loving others authentically. This means relationships with genuine care, and compassion, and reflecting the love you have for God. 

9. John 15:13

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The verse says, “Greater love has no one than this, that someone lay down his life for his friends,” It is a powerful concept that applies to relationships. It also emphasizes the depth and magnitude of genuine love. Laying down one’s life is the ultimate act of selflessness and willingness to put someone’s needs above your own. True love is based on the small and daily acts of service. Laying down your life implies the dedication to working through difficulties, and continuously nurturing the bond despite inevitable ups and downs. If we surprise our partners with acts of kindness and love then we will be able to have a healthier relationship.

10. Romans 12:9

The verse states, “Let love be genuine. Abhor what is evil; hold fast to what is good.” Through this, we are shown the importance of genuine love which urges us to move beyond superficial affection. True Love in relationships involves empathy, support, respect, and vulnerability. The verse encourages us to “abhor what is evil” which means setting healthy boundaries, communicating assertively, choosing forgiveness, and prioritizing peace.

11. Romans 12:10

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It says, “Be devoted to one another in love. Honor one another above yourselves.” This verse beautifully shows the essence of healthy and fulfilling relationships. It emphasizes being devoted to one another in love. This can involve offering unwavering support, prioritizing your partner, and practicing empathy as well as understanding. The verse also highlights the importance of honoring one another above ourselves,

12. Romans 12:15

It states, “Rejoice with those who rejoice; mourn with those who mourn.” It is a simple verse that urges us to share in the joys and sorrows of our loved ones. Listening to your partner shows that you are truly paying attention. Acknowledging their emotions can show validation and acceptance. The verse also encourages us to move beyond basic interactions and connect with our loved ones on a deeper emotional level. Vulnerability, trust, and commitment are the requirements of every relationship.

13. Romans 14:19

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The verse says, “So then let us pursue what makes for peace and mutual edification,” It is a valuable insight applicable to relationships. We are shown the emphasis on prioritizing peace in relationships. When we aim to resolve conflicts constructively can change the narrative in every argument. Encouraging your partner’s personal and professional aspirations and offering help when needed. The verse can also apply in situations where differences arise within a relationship we should find a common ground and communicate effectively.

14. 1 Corinthians 13:4-6

The passage reads, “Love is patient and kind. Love does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud. It does not dishonor others, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, and it keeps no record of wrongs. It does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth.” Also known as the “Love Chapter” because it lays out powerful principles that apply to relationships of all kinds. By applying these principles you can cultivate healthier and fulfilling relationships that are built on respect, genuine love, and trust. It should be noted that love is everything good. Love indulges in emotions such as patience, kindness, humility, respect, and forgiveness.

15. 1 Corinthians 16:14

The verse says, “Do everything in love.” Through this verse, we are shown how love should be the fundamental force that drives all our actions and interactions within relationships. The verse also reminds us to approach conflicts with love, that we should always choose forgiveness, and that we should continuously cultivate love. By applying this principle, we can create a vibrant, supportive, and deeply connected relationship with our partners. Even during arguments, we should try to maintain respect, avoid negativity, and focus on finding solutions together.

16. 2 Corinthians 13:11

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It states, “Finally, brothers and sisters, rejoice! Aim for restoration, comfort one another, agree with one another, live in peace; and the God of love and peace will be with you.” This verse offers profound advice for our relationships. Whether we are experiencing good times or facing challenges, we should hold onto a positive outlook and appreciate the present moment.

The verse also encourages us to aim for restoration which suggests that we should actively work towards healing ruptures in relationships. These principles can also be applied in several ways such as actively listening and offering support, practicing forgiveness, seeking common ground, and celebrating each other.

17. Galatians 5:13

It states, “For you were called to freedom, brothers, and sisters; only do not use your freedom as an opportunity for the flesh, but through love serve one another.” The verse offers powerful insights that apply to various aspects of relationships. Freedom as used in the verse refers to the freedom from unhealthy dependencies, rigid limitations, and manipulative expectations.

Love in this verse emphasizes genuine and selfless love that drives our actions. This involves prioritizing the needs and happiness of others and compassion. In the verse, service signifies actively contributing to the well-being of others as well as putting their needs before your own.

18. Ephesians 4:2

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The verse says, “Be completely humble and gentle; be patient, bearing with one another in love.” Through this verse, we can approach relationships with humility. If we can recognize our limitations and imperfections can help us understand and appreciate our partner’s imperfections. Being kind and respectful even during disagreements can have a big impact on the relationship.

The phrase “bearing with one another in love” shows how important it is to stay in a relationship even if you are facing challenges. Choosing to stay with your partner through thick and thin is the greatest example of true love.

19. Ephesians 4:32

The verse states, “Be kind and compassionate to one another, forgiving each other, just as in Christ God forgave you.” It is a verse that offers significant wisdom for relationships. Being an active listener in the relationship is a great example of being tender towards your partner. Forgiveness is choosing to let go of resentment and anger and moving forward. True forgiveness doesn’t condone harmful actions but allows you and your partner to release the negative weight.

20. Colossians 3:13

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It reads, “Bear with each other and forgive one another if any of you has a grievance against someone. Forgive as the Lord forgave you.” The verse offers powerful advice for navigating challenges and fostering strong relationships. When it comes to relationships we should accept an individual’s differences. Forgiveness is an act of self-liberation that frees us from bitterness and negativity.

All in all, we should remember that to have healthy relationships, we should learn to be kind, forgiving, and loving. However, in every relationship respect and love in needed for it to succeed. You cannot be in a relationship where you expect to be treated better than you treat your partner. If there is something I’ve learned from these verses, is that i should treat the people around me the way i would like to be treated.